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Rank Them Yourself

"In the Pac-10 schools, where does USC stand, academically?"

That’s the question my neighbor asked me today.  And he was surprised when I told him there was almost no way to answer it. 

He told me he thought that Stanford had to be "on top," followed by Berkeley and then UCLA.   But he wasn’t naming those schools based on the quality of the education or the success of their graduates.  He did what lots of parents and students do; he deduced that the harder it is to get admitted, the better the school must be. 

I disagree.

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The “Weakness” Question

Yahoo posted an article for job-seekers today about how to handle the "What is your biggest weakness?" question.  College-seekers need to know how to handle that question, too.

College interviewers may ask you the same question.  College applications might have sections in which you are asked to tell them if you've ever been subject to a disciplinary action at school, or to tell them about a time you failed, or to share an experience in which you learned a hard lesson.

How should you handle these questions?

First, if anyone tells you to mention a weakness that is actually a strength, like, "Sometimes, I try to hard to help people in need", tell that person to beat it.  They're giving you just plain stupid advice.  No interviewer, college or otherwise, will be impressed by your supposed strong weakness.

A better approach is to just be honest.

You've got weaknesses; we all have them.  You've made mistakes; we've all made them.  Smart, mature students know this.  They don't hide behind their mistakes.  They own up to and learn from them.  They aren't ashamed of their weaknesses.  They try their best and then stand proud of their efforts. 

Colleges need kids who are aware of their weaknesses, who can bounce back when they fail.  Why?  Because at some point in college, you're going to fail.  You'll run for a club office and you won't win.  You'll get a 'D' on a test even though you studied hard.  You'll apply for a research grant and be rejected.  I promise you it's going to happen. 

Nobody who's enjoyed a fulfilling and successful college career did so by being afraid to fail.  Colleges want those kids who are willing to put themselves out there.

So when you're applying to college and you're asked about your weaknesses, talk openly about them.  When you're asked about your mistakes, own them and talk about what you're doing to avoid making them again.

Want examples?

It's, "I got a 'D' in chemistry because my teacher didn't like me," vs. "No matter how hard I tried, I just could not get a handle on chemistry."

It's, "I was suspended from school last year because my counselor over-reacted," vs. "I was suspended from school last year because I did something stupid that I will never do again."

It's, "I didn't make varsity soccer because there were so many politics involved," vs. "I'm not the best soccer player, but I love playing soccer anyway."

Learn the lesson now, and you'll not only get a little closer to college, but you'll also have no problem handling the "weakness" question when you apply for jobs after you graduate.

Why Parents and College Essays Don’t Mix

I received an email yesterday from
the mother of a Collegewise kid.  She'd read her daughter's college
essay and made "some changes," changes she said were "not drastic."  Her
daughter, however, was not happy about Mom's involvement.  Now they
were both upset and Mom wanted my advice about how to handle the

I told her she was a great parent and that she should be applauded for her good intentions, but that she
should run as fast as she possibly could in the opposite direction away
from her kid's college essays.  Right away. 

Parents and college essays don't mix.  If you'd like to know why, I've shared a piece I wrote for our Collegewise parents here.  If you're a parent, I hope you'll give it a read (and if you're a student, pass it along to your folks).

Not-so-complicated college admissions advice


So, what if you haven’t won prestigious awards, earned a
perfect score on the SAT, or invented plutonium during your high school
years?  Don’t worry.  Impressing colleges isn’t as hard as you might
think it is.  Here are five college admissions tips, none of which require
that you invent a radioactive chemical element.

1.  Raise your hand.

Colleges don’t just want students who plow through courses
and get good grades; they want students who are engaged in class, who like to learn,
and who make contributions by participating.  In fact, that’s why colleges
ask for letters of recommendation from your teachers–to learn if you’ve
demonstrated these qualities.  So put your hand up, ask questions and
contribute to class discussions. 

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5 Things Colleges Would Like You To Be

Be_nice Good grades.  High test scores.  A rocket arm that can throw a football to a receiver who’s running a fly pattern in a different zip code.  All of those things are appealing to colleges.  But there are some qualities colleges would like you to have that don’t necessarily involve superior intelligence) or the ability to pick up the blitz).  Here are a few of them.

1. Be nice to the kids other students aren’t nice to.
Once they get out of high school, most students realize that
those kids who made fun of the socially less fortunate were actually gigantic
losers themselves. So be nice. Say “hi” to the kid nobody else says “hi”
to. Don’t join in when everyone else starts
to make fun of the easy target. Your
teachers and counselors will notice, the kid you’re nice to will appreciate it,
and you’ll be in line for karma points later in life.


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Seniors: Get Ahead While Relaxing This Summer

Seniors deserve some downtime during the summer. Relax. Soak up some sun. Eat potato
chips. But if you follow these five tips this summer, you’ll be the envy of your fellow seniors later this fall when
they’re running to meet deadlines and the only running you’re doing is to
work off all those potato chips (we’re speaking from unfortunate personal potato
chip experience here).

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When in. . .San Luis Obispo

My weekend camping trip in Big Sur was interrupted by a voluntary evacuation due to wildfires.  So what was supposed to be a second night in Big Sur became a night in San Luis Obispo, and predictably, an impromptu visit to Cal Poly.

I don’t expect high school students and parents to have the same sick compulsion to visit colleges that we do (medication and therapy don’t help.  It’s completely and totally incurable).  But I’ve visited several hundred colleges, and not many of them are in a town as safe, quaint and college-friendly as San Luis Obsipo.  I think any student or parent, even one who (mistakenly) believes the colleges on the US News Top 10 list are the only ones worth attending, would agree.  So the next time you find yourself in a new town, whether you’re vacationing or visiting or voluntarily evacuating, pay a quick visit to a college in the area.  There’s a good chance you’ll start to see what we mean when we talk about just how many great colleges there are worth (voluntarily) attending.   

We’re giving away a month of free groceries to the person who feeds us the best morsel of college trivia!

ListShare your tastiest tidbit of college trivia for a chance to win free groceries for a month!

What’s this contest all about?

It’s about reminding high school kids that great experiences happen at every college, including at some in Delaware.  It’s about celebrating what the US News college rankings don’t consider, like the math majors who created a remote control that changed the scoreboard at the Rose Bowl, the mascots who wear kilts and play bagpipes as they lead the football team onto the field, and the alumnus of the tiny liberal arts college who went on to create the Simpsons.   It’s about having a little fun, college(wise) style. 

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5 Tips for High School Academic Success

Report_card_2 You don’t need to read our blog to know that getting good grades will help you get into college.  But here are five tips you might not have thought of, tips that anyone from “A” students to “C” students can use to be more successful in high school. 


1.  Get to know your high school counselor (and when you do, be nice).

Your high school counselor is not only a resource for you, but can also be your advocate with teachers and colleges.  So before you pick your classes, meet with your counselor.  If you have a question about college, ask your counselor.  And if you happen to have an extra batch of fresh-baked cookies lying around, bring some to your counselor.  We’re not saying you should schmooze with insincerity; we’re saying that you should acknowledge, appreciate and benefit from your counselor’s willingness to help you. 


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