When trying to calculate a potential return on their college investment, many families treat the decision as if they will be silent partners with their college, as if their involvement will be limited to providing capital, not one with an opportunity to participate in the daily operations or management.

But college doesn’t have to be that way.

Once the college investment is made, the student is given the opportunity to influence or even direct what happens next. What to major in, what classes to take, which activities to participate in, what to do during the summers, which resources to take advantage of, who to ask for help—that’s all within the student’s control. There is no board of directors making those decisions for you. Going to college is like getting to pick which company to work for, which job you take, what your responsibilities will be, how many hours you work, etc.

Sure, not every college offers you the same variety of choices and freedom. Like any investment, it’s important to carefully consider which recipient most aligns with your goals and vision.

But students, you get to make a decision. Will you leverage all the newfound influence to make the most of your family’s collegiate investment? Will you make use of the resources your college will serve up? Will you seek out opportunities for learning and growth that are available to you? And most importantly, will you make it your four-year mission to carve out a remarkable college career?

Or will you be a passive participant who sits back and hopes for the best?

You won’t have to be a silent partner unless you choose to be.