Asking someone you just met, “Do you play any sports?” says that you’re curious. But posing that question to someone you’ve known for two years and are finally taking out on a first date says that you haven’t taken the time to learn much about them.
In a job interview, “What products do you sell?” shows that you haven’t done any research. “Which of the five new products you released last year has sold the best?” is a different story.
Asking a friend, “Why are you so stressed?” shows concern (which is good). But asking, “How did you feel after that bio test that you said you were worried about?” shows that you’re both concerned and attentive (even better).
Asking your teacher, “I just don’t get this stuff—can I do extra credit?” sounds like giving up. And that won’t inspire your teacher to help you.
But this shows you’re willing to do your part:
“Is there a time that’s convenient for you when I could come by and ask you some questions about the problems I got wrong on the last test? I tried to figure them out myself and for some reason, I’m still not getting them correct.”
As you start to learn about colleges—at info sessions, college fairs and tours—feel free to ask questions. There are over 2,500 four-year colleges, and you can’t be expected to know everything about every school that might intrigue you.
But as you narrow down your list, remember the answers you’ve been given. Make efforts to learn more about the school and the programs or opportunities that interest you. Then you can ask questions that show you’ve done your research and paid attention.
“Do you guys have a business major?” is fine to ask at a college fair when you’re just getting to know a school. But it’s not a good question for the interviewer you meet after you’ve already applied.