So many of the families I meet at high school speaking events ask questions that are looking for a magic formula to get into the
college of their dreams. They want a map, a step-by-step list of classes, test scores, and activities that will get them the admission they want so badly. But there are two problems with the search for the college admissions magic formula:
- The formula doesn’t exist (and even if it did, everyone would copy it and it wouldn’t be so magical anymore).
- The search for the magic formula is the worst way to stand out.
Students who are looking for the magic formula spend a lot of time doing the wrong things. They
worry about what everybody else is doing. They try to copy the successes of those students who’ve been admitted to
prestigious colleges. They focus on their weaknesses and try to polish every perceived imperfection.
What they don’t do is chart their own path. And charting your own path is what makes you stand out.
Are you willing to try your best in AP bio and be happy with your effort even if you don’t get an A?
Are you willing to retire from SAT-taking after preparing for and taking it twice, no matter what your score, so you can get back to focusing on school and the track team?
Are you willing to play baseball just because you love it, whether or not you ever get to start a game behind the plate?
Are you willing to pass up joining the clubs everybody else is joining so you can spend time doing what you really enjoy?
Are you willing to fall in love with a subject that fascinates you to the point that you want to read and learn more about it
outside of class?
Are you willing to think about what you want out of your college experience and then spend the time necessary to find the schools that fit you?
It feels risky to chart your own path when everyone else is following. But doing what other people aren’t doing is exactly how you stand out.