As college decisions begin to arrive in the next few months, some students are going to feel that they weren't treated fairly, that other seemingly less qualified students were admitted instead of them.
It's important to accept that the system of college admissions–deciding who gets in and who does not–is not perfect. The same can be said of job interviews, first dates, and just about anything else meant to size up complex human beings based on limited information. This isn't the hundred yard dash where whoever runs the fastest is the clear winner.
But remember two things.
1. Every admissions officer I've ever met works very hard to be fair and thorough when they evaluate students. They believe applicants should be treated with respect and they never make any decision lightly. While it might feel bitterly personal when they say no, it really isn't.
2. Just as most qualified work seekers still end up with jobs and good people still end up in relationships, nice kids who work hard still get into college. It may or may not be your first choice, but you'll almost certainly get to go somewhere.