I spoke to a group of eighth grade parents last week about the college admissions process they'll soon be facing as their kids move into high school. Here are the five tips I shared with them at the end of the talk.
1. Kids should take the most challenging courses they can reasonably handle.
The more rigorous her high school classes, the better prepared a student will be for college academics. A college will be more impressed by a student who earns B’s in difficult courses than they will by a student who earns A’s in easy ones. A student should not, however, challenge himself so much that he loses sleep, sanity, or the ability to enjoy his activities. Hard work is good. Academic-induced misery is not.
2. Students should study (a little) for standardized tests.
Standardized tests like the SAT or ACT are an important part of the admissions process at many colleges. But they are never the most important part. Taking a course, or buying a book, and doing some focused preparation is a good idea. But turning into a professional test-taker and spending inordinate time and money just takes kids away from their classes and activities.
3. Encourage kids to choose activities they love.
There are no prescribed extracurricular activities that “look good” to colleges. Colleges just want kids with passion. If your student loves soccer, encourage him to play on the team, to go to soccer camp, to referee games, and take his interest as far as he would like to. The same goes for artists, musicians, stamp collectors, kids who are involved in youth group and those who love their part time jobs. As long as the activity is not covered by the criminal code, colleges will be impressed if a kid really commits himself to it.
4. Don’t rule out any college because the sticker price is too high.
Not everybody on an airplane pays the same price for a ticket. The same can be said of students and the price of attending their particular colleges. There are billions of dollars in financial aid available and plenty of places where you can learn how to get it. Two of the best sources of information and advice I’ve seen are www.finaid.org (it’s a treasure trove of free information about financial aid and scholarships) and the book “Paying for College Without Going Broke” by Kalman A. Chany.
5. Be careful who you listen to about college admissions.
Whenever a parent asks me a college admissions question that begins with, "I heard that…," two things are usually true about the statement that follows. 1) It's wildly inaccurate, and, 2) It comes from a source that is in no way associated with college admissions. I don't take advice on dental hygiene from my stockbroker, and you shouldn't take college admissions advice from your friends and neighbors. Admissions officers, counselors and other professionals are reliable sources of college-related information. Most other people are not. Seek out and accept information from those in the know.